Tuesday 13 February 2018

The One with Valentine’s Day


Adhering to the customary special day post, here is the one with Valentine’s day.  Love is in the air and everyone is hunting special gifts for their special ones. Though I don't have any plans I am amusing myself in the memories of this day..
Valentine’s day is supposed to be most romantic day of the year. I found some interesting history behind the Valentine’s day here.

It is that time of the year where every restaurant, gift shop, malls are drowned in theme red and hearts. This reminds me of something I used to do. I had a queer habit during my college days where I used to gather collectibles that was heart-shaped. I went way beyond control that my friends had to hide anything heart-shaped from my reach. They ranged from small pendants, key-rings, earrings to heavy paper weights.



There was some funny dress code for the day circulated in my school and college days. Each color would be assigned a meaning to let your loved ones and others what in your mind. This list used to change every year. Everyone was very cautious in getting the color right and not convey the wrong message to the other gender. Funny, I took this shit seriously then. I found the color code for this year too!!

Dress Color                      Meaning

Blue                       Love Applicants Invited

Green                           I am waiting

Red                       Already in Love, Two side

Black                         Proposal Rejected

White                    Sorry, I am already reserved

Orange                       Going to Propose

Pink Color                  Proposal accepted

Purple/Grey        Not interested, Better luck next time

Yellow                              Broke Up

Brown                           Broken Hearts



Now I was thinking how would I want to spend the day with the current mindset. These are my idea of V-Day picks that I would indulge in for a perfect enjoyable day.

The Book - A thing beyond forever by Novoneel Chakraborty


I am sucker for romantic stories with cheesy and disgustingly sweet romance. And if there is a sad ending, it is more likely to be in my favorites.

I have not found a romantic novel that trumps this book in my favorites. This is a sort of unusual fantasy-like novel where the protagonist finds bizarre similarities between her child patient and her dead boyfriend. She has not yet recovered from her past relationship but life throws her haunting puzzles. What she does forms the climax. I was never convinced that this was a debut novel of an Indian author. I read this book overnight and still could not come out of the story. The story is woven around the sweet and innocent love at adolescent and the sting and pain when you lose. The intensity of the story made me forget the flimsy adult racy scene. This is must read for those who want to melt away in romance.

The Movie – Titanic by James Cameron


I think this would be the world’s popular choice for a romantic movie. The ever-praised epic love story wins hands down. The love between Jack and Rose, though short lived has the enchanted the entire world. The amazing visuals and mesmerizing music adds to the effect. This movie also speaks about the class discrimination and social preconception. Every time I watch the movie I hope there is a way Jack was saved. Drown yourself this valentine in the most acclaimed romantic movie.

The Chocolate – Ferrero Rocher

What is a celebration without devouring the silky smooth chocolate? I am not a big chocolate person. I prefer candies and gummy bears to the chocolates. But if you are offering me Ferrero Rocher, I become like the Gollum of the Lord of the Rings. It doesn't flood you with the gooey chocolate but nevertheless leaves you the satisfaction is of having a huge block.



The Destination – Paris, France



Being born and bred in a country where the sun dominates most part of the year. So I always dream of a place where I could enjoy a moderate climate. Paris, it is! There is a reason this city is called ‘the city of love’ and it boasts being the top spot for Valentine's getaways and proposals. The cobbled streets, heritage buildings, elegant and cosy restaurants, comforting croissants and the sexy language adds flavor to the romance. It is my loooong term dream destination and tops my bucket list for tours.

Whew! This listicle is long than I intended. I shall discover more such to-do picks for the V-day magic. May the Valentine's day shower upon us all the love in the world(and gifts!!).

Tuesday 6 February 2018

Book Review: The Handmaid's Tale

Author: Margaret Atwood
Genre: Dystopian
Type: Fiction

I have been reading so many dystopian novels recently that I have started to fear the future with so many what ifs. I could not dismiss this novel as unrealistic because the story begins similar to the present world if you sequence them in chronological order. 

Overthrowing the previous government by force, a military rule is established in the Republic of Gilead. Women are stripped of basic rights such as choice of clothes, reading, writing, working to earn money and so on. They are divided into different groups based on their purpose. The fertile women (those who could bear children) are made into Handmaids; the Wives take care of the household of the higher ranking men like Commanders; Marthas are domestic servants of the household; Aunts train the handmaids at the Red Centre; Econowives who are wives of lower ranking men like the Guardians and also perform the activities of a Martha and if fertile, a handmaid too; Jezebels are rebellious women who chose to work as prostitutes in secrets sex clubs rather become an Unwoman to work at fields or clean radioactive wastes in the Colonies.

The handmaids are assigned to a Commander with infertile Wives for 3 years to bear a child for them( similar to surrogate mother). They are named after the Commander for the period. The plot revolves around the handmaid Offred who is assigned to Commander Fred. The Wife Serena Joy despises Offred while the Marthas Rita and Cora are not very friendly. Offred lives through the period reliving the 'before' time where she had a family with husband Luke and a daughter. The daughter is taken away from her and her husband is killed when she tried escaping to Canada. She hopes to find her daughter and escape again. In the meantime the Commander starts an illegal and inconclusive relationship with her while she starts liking Nick, the driver of the Commander.  Did she escape from here? Did she find her daughter? Did she get together with Nick? Was she caught having relationship with the Commander? - The answers form the remaining story.

When I came to know this book was from way back in 1980's I couldn't be more surprised. Even today you can relate yourself with the oppression of women. With more awareness created everyday, women are enjoying their basic rights learning, choice of what to wear, reading writing, what to choose as a career. It made me think what if we are taking everything for granted. The handmaids are not given the choice if she should have a child with a man she barely knows and furthermore, she can't own a baby she gives birth to. The commander says 'Better never means better for everyone. It always means worse, for some' The society formed here screams that the women are protected by the laws yet they are made do things which do not respect their wishes or their feelings. The hypocrisy of the laws are similar to laws of the present. I am in a secular country but I can see huge intolerance towards other religions, the liberty of expression is at jeopardy and if we are not careful we could end up being another Republic of Gilead. 

The book deeply affected me that I sometimes I felt like taking a jab at Aunt Lydia during her training sessions. I couldn't overcome the angst I felt and that is how I was affected. If you are a person who are looking for a fantasy dystopian story, this is not for you. The story shuttles between 3 different period of time and it takes several chapters to understand the schema. The vocabulary is simple and natural. The pace is slow and makes you hover over the story for a while.

Verdict: Suits readers who appreciate dystopian story with overwhelming treatment, especially hypocrisy at its best.